Wednesday, September 21, 2011

If this isn't nice, I don't know what is

“I need to start doing this more”

I can’t tell you how many times I’ve said that over the last few months.  I think it’s a sign of a good (albeit busy) life. 

I was at the beach a few weeks ago with friends.  Getting sticky from the sun and covered in sand and we were just talking about God and basking in the sun.  We laid on the beach until we couldn’t stand it and then just walked into the ocean and watched the surfers.  It was a brilliant day.  I need to do that more.

This past Saturday I ventured for the first time to the San Diego Swap-Meet.  It was a treasure trove of weird and strange and wonderful things.  For some people that is their Saturday tradition—wandering the aisles, chatting with the sellers, soaking up the San Diego culture.  The hubs and I found a vintage clothes hamper (something I had been wanting forever and this one is just perfect), a vintage Hollywood pin-up bottle opener (the girl has some major gams) and we picked up some tools at a great price (there is never a day when he is not looking for tools).  It was lovely to meander with our friends and find gems that we love.  I need to do that more.

We got a clothes hamper like this one, but green (for 10 dollars!!)
We have a friend who is graduating from the San Diego Probation Officer Academy (I’m sure it has a smoother name than that) and on Friday we’re having a party at our place.  It’s to celebrate him, but also just to celebrate.  I freaking love to celebrate—birthdays, anniversaries, just anything, really anything.  I’ve loved getting decorations and ideas for the party together.  We need to celebrate life and all the good things more often. 

“And I urge you to please notice when you are happy, and exclaim or murmur or think at some point, 'If this isn't nice, I don't know what is.” 
― Kurt Vonnegut, A Man Without a Country

I need to do that more.

Last night I was able to go to a show at a bar right down the street from me with my lovely, lovely church friends.  I say church friends, because I feel like that makes them extra special.  There’s a bond between people who you are in true community with.  I’m so lucky to have those ladies (and some gents too).  It was a great show, there was great beer, and even some dancing.  Even though I went home and destroyed my phone immediately after (my purse may have fallen in the toilet (ssshhh, don’t freak out about how gross that is)) the night was oh so delightfully good.  I need to do that more often (just not that phone part).

Tomorrow night the boy has planned an extra special date night.  It’s all a surprise.  He’s being sneaky.  I, OF COURSE, need to that more often. 

I’m so damn excited about that.

I need to be that excited more often.

Finding new music that makes my life more wonderfully full of color. I need to do that more.

Discovering more reasons to love this city. I need to do that more.

Isn’t this life just the best? 

We all deserve to fill our lives with things we love. 

You should do that more.


Monday, August 22, 2011

My love, don't forget the flowers

Being crafty is a favorite of mine, but one that gets typically pushed to the side.

This girl is busy.  I can't make you that garden gnome bowling set I've been wanting to and I'm sorry.

See said gnomes here:

So fun, right?  Yes.  And I want to make that for you.  I want to make it for freaking everyone, but I can't for so many reasons!!!

(maybe this is a bit dramatic)

Why do crafts have to cost money?
Why can't I have 30 hours a day?
How come I can't thread my sewing machine without my husband or a youtube video?

My work space is achingly boring and I've been trying to think of ideas to make it seem more like my space.  I've had the idea of doing a tiny pennant to string around my computer/inbox/whatever on my desk and I finally started it.

Now that I craft/take pictures/thrift shop/blog so rarely each time is super special and fun to me.

Don't forget the Flowers
I picked out some fabric from the small bundles they have for cheap at Wal-Mart

I originally took this picture without the beer, but then my husband placed it back in view.  I like it better this way.

I traced the circles with a soup can, which made it super easy to get them the same.  Also, I always have soup on hand so it was easy to grab... but I later tried this soup and was sorely disappointed.  I mean, this girl loves gumbo... so I was rreeeaaaalllllllllllll disappointed.

I'll trace anything. Your face, you say?  SURE

The beginning process was super chill and easy.  Whenever the hubs and I were watching TV (we're going through Mad Men again--in love).

I feel like I should have been born in the 30's.  Be a working girl in the 50s and 60s.  I'd be even more sassy. I'm constantly watching old movies and listening to my Billie Holiday Pandora station.  I love finding places in town that have that vintage feel and I'm constantly trying to convert our apartment to a chic, 1960's Mad Men set.

If I was able to start over on this project I would cut on squares and then double it up, sew the semi-circle and cut around it.  Check out these instructions:

I obviously didn't go by any directions and wasn't able to use my sewing machine.  I tried, but the folded circles were too small to lead through the machine so it kept on getting caught and tearing the fabric.  So I'm hand sewing each which actually hasn't been too bad.

I still have  A LOT more circles to add, but I'm real happy with the finished product.  I'll put pictures up of it at my office too.

It's been a delightfully busy, crafty, warm and lovely week.

Hopefully this spurt of creativity will continue.  

Next project maybe?

I would love to hear what you creative geniuses are doing.  Give me some inspiration!!


From the Pacific Ocean


Tuesday, August 2, 2011

Everything's Lighter here in CA

I really do apologize for these blurry pictures. 

My camera lenses (almost all of them) need to visit the lens doctor so these are all from my (crappy) phone.

Have patience!! :)

Here is a picture of brunette Ashley.  Brunette is where my heart is so I'll be back there soon.

Now, here is a blurry one that I took yesterday (in my work out clothes) while cooking dinner for me and the hubs (Mexican Casserole and cornbread--YUM)

And one (also blurry--forgive me) on the way to celebrate a friend before he goes up to the Bay area
"Love is not consolation. It is light."--Friedrich Nietzsche

Saturday, July 16, 2011

Hairspiration (Hair Inspiration)?!!!

Call me a Californian.

I am going blonder.

Isn't Michelle Williams a Doll?

These are all from her cover on Marie Claire a few months ago.


Hair Appointment in T minus 6 hours.

Life is crazy and beautiful.


Saturday, June 25, 2011

Every morning another chapter

eek, never finished this... too much baseball

It's true, for the boy... and for sweet potato fries

Marriage is like a ring.  A circle that goes on forever and ever and has no end.
I really hate that speech.  Marriage isn't like a ring.  Period.

Lady got some short hair

The hubs getting his last tattoo 

no pictures of my thighs please

Smokin' real cigarettes.  CHOCOLATE ONES!!!

She's a brick house.

Breakfast Tea

A while ago my sister-in-law gave me the pictures of our vacation that B and I took here to San Diego last year. That week here was such a blissful break in the sun for us.  We had dreams of coming here for good, but at the moment had NO idea that we'd actually do it.  

We ate good food, spent time with family, and loved everything.

Looking back I think we knew that we would be there for real soon.

Things work out.

It's nice to look back and see that.

But, GEEZ I'm so glad this happened. 

Also, my parents will be here soon.


I will show them around this wonderful new place of mine.  I hope they love it.

I've been in a good mood this weekend because of my Friday after-work commute.
I know that sounds weird.
Shit just worked together.  The interstate was crowded. We all went fast.  We all worked together. No breaking, just smooth sailing and really, it made me love San Diego even more (if possible?).

Little things make me happy.

Hope your weekend made you happy too.


P.S.  It has been a whole year since I shaved my head!!! So crazy, love you Pat!!!

Wednesday, June 22, 2011

Picture Love

After my post about married life yesterday I wanted to do a "picture recap" or something.  I wish we had more pictures that collected each perfect little moment.  

It's a brief history of us.
We show our love by face grabs 
On a trip back to Illinois to see my parents

This was us driving around the country after our first Sunday together

I have always loved this picture which was taken long before we were ever together
During our engagement picture session


June 21, 2008
"We're not Twins" 

"I want someone who is fierce and will love me until death and knows that love is as strong as death, and be on my side forever and ever. I want someone who will destroy and be destroyed by me." 
 Jeanette Winterson (Oranges Are Not the Only Fruit)